Should we keep our wedding vows secret from each other?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Rev. Bill Cochran of Say “I Do” Your Way lists the pros and cons of sharing vows with your fiance beforehand.

    Host: Should we keep our wedding vows secret from each other?

    Bill Cochran: Many couples want to do that. I think they want to watch the amusement on the face of their one that they love so much. As they listen to what fabulous job they have done in writing those vows. There is something special also about the whole surprise factor, but I have to tell you that's a decision that the two of you need to make together. Do you want to show them ahead of time, do you want to make them a surprise. I favor the surprise, but it is your wedding and your vows and you can do it however you want.