What are some ways to know if someone is not attracted to you by their body language?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Dating and relationship coach Toni Coleman discusses the importance of body language, including how to know if someone is not attracted to you by their body language.

    Speaker: What are some ways to know if someone is not attracted to you by their body language?

    Toni Coleman: Again, it would be sort of the reverse of some of the positive things that I talked about earlier. It would be somebody who is closed off when they're in your presence. It's somebody who perhaps if you're saying they're talking, they're standing back further than would be the normal distance that we would expect if we were conversing. Perhaps as you stand together, they're kind of facing in different way. Maybe, if you're sitting near each other, they're crossing away like this, doing this kind of thing. Perhaps, it's that they keep averting their eyes and you're not able to get eye contact with them, which always gives off the sense that they're holding back or they're hiding or they're deceiving, that's usually how that's read by people whether they're really consciously aware of that or not. Things like just sort of a general communication of avoidance or reluctance or pulling back, those are the things that would demonstrate that they're just not interested