What is the second attitude of dating?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Relationship expert Gloria MacDonald discusses the second of the seven attitudes of highly successful daters.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: What is the second attitude of dating?

    Gloria MacDonald: Attitude number two is open mindedness. Lots of people have created a list of the things they are looking for in someone, maybe their characteristics, the areas of interest, things like that and those lists are all great and wonderful, but finding a partner is not like walking through the isles of a grocery store and picking the things off the shelf.

    So, the successful dater really has an open mind. They might have that list of the things they are looking for, maybe a woman is looking for a man who is six feet tall or taller, but if she can remain open minded and say, This guy who is 5 10 might just be great. Yeah, he is not six feet tall, but just because a man is not six feet tall does not mean they are dishonest of slimy or not intelligent or any of those things. So, while you have your list, be open minded and be willing to meet a variety of people and the more open minded you are and the more you are willing to meet a variety of people, the more success you will have.