How do I cope with a break up?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Gloria MacDonald offers advice on how to cope with a break up.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: How do I cope with a breakup?

    Gloria MacDonald: Sometimes, breakups are very painful and we can't help that. For the most part, most of us don't ever want to hurt someone else and nor do we want to feel hurt, but sometimes, it is going to happen. If the breakup is particularly painful to you, one of things you can do is seek professional help. Go to a therapist, a psychologist, a psychiatrist and get some professional help on just working through some of those issues and some of the pain that you are feeling, but if you get angry and vindictive and spiteful, that's not going to help you get through the pain. That's just going to create more pain for you and the angrier you are and the more spiteful and vindictive you are, the more it is going to hurt you and it is really not going to hurt the other person anywhere near as much as it is going to hurt you. So for your own good, let go of the anger and the resentment and all those things, move on as much as you can, honor yourself, know that there is somebody else that's wonderful, that's better for you out there and wish that other person all the best in their future dating experiences.