Is it possible to turn a bad boy into a nice guy?

    Published: 06-16-2009
    Views: 16,734
    Dating and relationship coach Toni Coleman discusses the possibility of turning a bad boy into a nice guy.

    Host: Is it possible to turn a bad boy into a nice guy?

    Toni Coleman: That is something that women from the beginning of time have been trying to do. It is something that comes up a lot when I talk with women who just are so crazy about this guy and they have a whole list of reasons why he is the way he is and ideas about how they can help those things to change so that he can be the nice guy that they know he is. For instance, he is misunderstood, he never really had a break, life has been unfair to him, it wasn't his fault because the way he grew up, his parents, he didn't have an opportunity, he didn't have enough money to go to college, he has not had -- people at work that have helped him, everyone has always been against him. So, she is coming up with a million reasons, a million excuses and all the different ways that she can save him. The reality is most of the time that even if somebody has had bad luck in life and they have had lots of reasons why they are, the way that they are if they really want to change their life and they really want to be a different way, with love and support they will change.