2nd Principle: No More Criticizing or Blaming!
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What are some examples of enforceable statements?
Happiness: How can we increase pleasure and love together?
Part 4 – Lovemaking: Transforming Sex into Lovemaking
If we’re in love, why can there be so much conflict or tension?
Doesn’t honest criticism get your partner to change?
Oh Kanye, Not Again!
How can I deal with kids that break the rules?
What can we do right now to be happier?
What range of sexual experiences can we have?
What is an example of tensions creating conflict using the Enneagram?
When something is bothering me, how do I get someone to change?
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How do I identify natural consequences?
What is “compatibility” in a love relationship?
Why does lovemaking seem to change overtime and become just sex in a marriage?
Is the problem our unmet needs or how we communicate our needs with our partner?
3rd Principle: Take Responsibility in a Conflict
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What if I can’t identify a non-punitive consequence?
Where do these personality needs come from?
How does erotic sex become a problem?
In a conflict, isn’t someone right and someone wrong?
4th Principle: Relating is the key to harmony when needs conflict
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Nothing seems to work as incentives for my child. Does he really not care?
How can we identify what our core personality needs are?
How do Turn On’s become a problem?
What should we do when our needs conflict?
If I don’t agree how can I validate my partner?
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What are one-liners we can use to save us energy with our children?
How do we find our personality needs using the Enneagram?
How would I know when I’m caught up in my Turn On’s?
How do we prevent having conflicts with each other?
If I don’t know what my partner is upset about how can I validate it?
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How can I discipline my children without getting angry?
What are the nine personality needs in the Enneagram?
What is the difference between sex and intimacy?