How do we talk about our sensitive issues together?
How does this orientation of lovemaking change the experience?
Do we need to analyze all the issues from our past?
What is the most important Element or skill in discussing issues?
How does pure lovemaking affect each partner’s lives?
How does self-awareness of your personality help?
How to Have a Successful Relationship (Part 1)
Tools for Listening so That You Always Feel Heard
How does this lovemaking change your relationship together?
How can I identify all the areas in my personality where these pressures show up?
What if my partner doesn’t want to work on our issues?
Effective Resolutions that Respond to Both Person’s Needs
Part 5 – How to Live the Relationship You Dreamed Of
What if what I want in a conflict doesn’t seem over the top?
Wouldn’t it be easier to find a new partner?
What should we do when we are starting to feel really upset?
For unhappy couples, could they just be incompatible?
What do we do with our ego needs?
How would creating emotional safety change the relationship?
Can I always de-escalate the pressure?
What does it take for a couple to live the relationship they’ve dreamed of?
2nd Principle: No More Criticizing or Blaming!
Happiness: How can we increase pleasure and love together?
Part 4 – Lovemaking: Transforming Sex into Lovemaking
If we’re in love, why can there be so much conflict or tension?
Doesn’t honest criticism get your partner to change?
What can we do right now to be happier?
What range of sexual experiences can we have?
What is an example of tensions creating conflict using the Enneagram?
When something is bothering me, how do I get someone to change?
What is “compatibility” in a love relationship?
Why does lovemaking seem to change overtime and become just sex in a marriage?
Is the problem our unmet needs or how we communicate our needs with our partner?
3rd Principle: Take Responsibility in a Conflict
Where do these personality needs come from?
How does erotic sex become a problem?
In a conflict, isn’t someone right and someone wrong?
4th Principle: Relating is the key to harmony when needs conflict
How can we identify what our core personality needs are?
How do Turn On’s become a problem?
What should we do when our needs conflict?
If I don’t agree how can I validate my partner?
How do we find our personality needs using the Enneagram?
How would I know when I’m caught up in my Turn On’s?