What are the seven attitudes of highly successful daters?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Relationship expert Gloria MacDonald discusses the first of the seven attitudes of highly successful daters.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: What are the seven attitudes of highly successful daters?

    Gloria MacDonald: Well, the first attitude is the belief in the possibility. Henry Ford said, Whether you believe you can or you can not, you are right. So, those women who for example, have experiences and think, Oh gosh, there are no good men left out there, they are all losers, they are jerks, they are creeps. Well, that is what they are going to get. Likewise, men who feel like, Oh God, the women have so high maintenance they are going to find that in their experience. So, what we focus on; expands and if you are focusing on any of the negative things in your thought, that is what you are going to get.

    So, it is really a process of believing that you can find this wonderful person who is just right for you and really being aware of any of those negative mental things, thoughts that are coming to you, that are dragging you down and reversing that and saying, No, you know what, there is a great person out there for me and I believe I can find that person.