What do I do after I’ve made my list?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Gloria MacDonald explains what to do after you have made a list of 10 people you can practice flirting with.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: What do I do after I have made my list?

    Gloria MacDonald: Okay, so now that you have that list of ten people that you can practice flirting with, the first thing you are going to do is everyday for a week, make at least three people who are total strangers, smile and think about those ten people on that list and see if you can use some of those ten people, but make eye contact with a stranger, three strangers everyday, make eye contact with three strangers and make them smile. So really, by just looking at them and smiling, people are going to smile back and if you feel comfortable, throw in a 'Hi' or 'Hello' go for it. You will be amazed at how people respond, total strangers respond. When you make eye contact, smile at them and say, Hi! or Hello!

    So practice getting out of your comfort zone a little bit, practice this with strangers and know that you are not asking the stranger to marry you. This is just making eye contact and making them smile. When you smile at them, they are going to feel good and they are going to smile back at you.