What is the first commandment of goal setting?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Goals expert Gary Ryan Blair discusses how the first commandment of goal setting is that you must be decisive.

    Gary Ryan Blair

    Gary is the President of The GoalsGuy Learning Systems, a highly focused training organization whose mission is to help their clients build and sustain superior performance. They accomplish this objective by helping their clients increase their sense of direction, confidence, and capability in all areas of their personal and professional life.

    Gary believes passionately in the enormous, untapped potential that resides within each person and is committed to providing individuals and corporations with tools of knowledge and skill they can use to unlock this potential. He has developed an entire library of world-class training programs, books and learning resources like the Personal Strategic Plan that are designed to make the heart sing, the mind expand and the spirit soar!

    To support his belief in the importance of goal setting and focus, Gary has established and sponsored two nationally recognized events: Youth Goals Education Week, a unique opportunity for kids and teens to learn about goal setting and its influence on their future, and New Year's Resolutions Week, an insightful series of activities designed to encourage people to set goals for their lives.

    Gary believes that life will not go according to plan, if you do not have a plan. He shares this belief and his unique strategies with school systems and companies around the world such as IBM, NASA, General Electric, Federal Express, Ford and many others.

    In addition to The GoalsGuy, Gary has created the wildly successful got goals?® campaign. It's mission is to inspire people to Be More, Do More and to ultimately Have More from life.

    His personal philosophy can be summarized into two words: Everything Counts!™ He believes in sweating the small stuff, and teaches that every action, word and thought either moves you toward or away from your goals, mission and ultimate legacy; that every moment offers an opportunity for advancement or retreat.

    When Gary speaks and writes, he does so from the heart, with warmth and humor. His unique gift is to speak to an audience and communicate with the heart of each person as if they were alone having an important, intimate conversation. A polished storyteller, he has a way of making the seemingly complex, easy to understand.

    Gary, his wife Erika, son Ryan, and daughter Libby live in Tampa, Florida with their two wonder-dogs Beefcake and Pork chop.

    Host: What is the first commandment of goal setting?

    Gary Ryan Blair: The first commandment is thou shall be decisive and the reason for it is very simple. We hear throughout our lifetime, you have got to play the hand that life deals you and that is the another one of these old sayings that's not true. The fact is that the hand we are holding right now, is the hand that we dealt ourselves through a series of choices that we make throughout our lifetime.

    It's imperative to realize that no action takes place, before a decision. That it's impossible for you to go on a destination somewhere to jump on an airplane, to get on a train, to really write a book or anything at all in your life or even go to a restaurant and order a meal and to enjoy the meal, until you make a decision.

    So, it's imperative that everyone understands the decisiveness is so extremely important and it is a critical skill that everyone used to learn at an early age.