What is the second deadly dating sin for men?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Gloria MacDonald details the second deadly dating sin for men.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: What is the second deadly dating sin for men?

    Gloria McDonald: The second of the seven deadly sins is the sin of ungentlemanly conduct. So again, the woman's looking for chivalry, if the man doesn't pull off the chair for her, open the door for her, walk her to her car. He is just not a gentlemen and this is not someone you would want to take home to your mother.

    Believe it or not, while these things might seem a bit archaic, most women still love those gestures. Now, this isn't something you necessarily have to do for the entire rest of your life in a relationship, but guys, you you trying to win her over and these little things, go a long, long way. Had another story of a woman, who -- we introduced her to a man and they were meeting downtown for the first time, right after work, so say 6:30-7 o'clock for drinks. They had a couple of drinks and then she was actually going back to a train, to take a train home.

    The place where they met was only about three blocks away from the train station and the man paid for the drinks and everything and then just said goodbye and she was appalled that this man didn't walk her to the train station at 8:30-9 'o clock at night. Now, does this makes sense? Logically? No, because this women worked downtown, she walked to the train station late at night all by herself all the time, but well, this just wasn't gentlemanly conduct. A man who is a gentleman, who is that knight and shining armor who was being chivalrous, would make sure, he's taking of care of this woman. So again guys, if you can do anything to just show her, walk her to her car, open a door for her, be an absolute gentleman, it goes a long, long way.