What is the second flirting exercise?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Gloria MacDonald provides a second exercise for learning how to flirt.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: What is the second flirting exercise?

    Gloria MacDonald: Now that you have had your week of practicing smiling at strangers and having them smile back, the second exercise is to say something personal to someone new everyday, someone that you don't normally say something personal to. So for example, let's say, everyday when you drive to work, you drive into a garage and there is a parking lot attendant, try instead of saying to the perfunctory, Morning, how are you today? try saying something like, How is your morning going this morning? Are you having a good day? something that is a little more personal, that requires a response and smile when you are saying it. So make contact with that individual as a human being. Again, it is about valuing that human being and showing them that you value them. Flirting is about making them feel good about themselves. So we all just say, Morning. How are you? then everybody says, Fine and you? Go beyond that. Pay attention to that person as an individual. So again, find one person everyday for a week and say something more personal to them in a listed response.