Why are first impressions so important?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Relationship expert Gloria MacDonald discusses why first impressions are so important.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: Why are first impressions so important?

    Gloria MacDonald: First impressions are so important because we can t help it as human beings, we just form first impressions. We hear a lot of women saying, I don t want a man to judge me just on how I look. I don t want him to judge me on my body type or things like that. Well, the fact of the matter is, that is impossible. Men can t help it and women can t help it either. As human beings, we gather sensory, non-verbal information the minute we see someone and it's all very subconscious. So, if a woman is asking a man not to form a first impression of her based on how she looks, she is asking him literally to do the impossible. It is human nature and we can t fight against human nature.