Why do we have to flirt?

    Published: 06-16-2009
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    Gloria MacDonald explains why women have to learn how to flirt.

    Gloria MacDonald

    Gloria MacDonald is the founder and President of Perfect Partners, The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm, a highly successful, personalized matchmaking service. Gloria has interviewed hundreds and hundreds of single men and women and has introduced over 1500 couples. She is an expert in the field of dating and relationships, having appeared on a variety of TV and radio shows. She’s the co-author of the highly acclaimed book Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40. She believes, and has seen through her work, that there is a perfect partner for anyone of us who truly desires to find that relationship, believes they can have it, and are willing to accept it. Gloria is an engaging and dynamic speaker and trainer who changes lives. Testimonials from people who have attended Gloria’s seminars: “Gloria uses her exceptional knowledge of real world dating and her unique and exciting style to inspire women to not give up. Truly a wonderful presenter. I would highly recommend anything she does now and in the future.” “This is the information single women and men have been waiting for.” “A truly engaging seminar. You are obviously an expert on the topic. Your knowledge, compassion, sensitivity and forthrightness was spiced with humour to create a clean and practical approach to relationship success.” “Attending your seminar has truly been an inspiration. YOU ARE AN AMAZING TRAINER!”

    Host: Why do we have to flirt?

    Gloria MacDonald: We do have to flirt. It is just part of human nature, particularly women. Women have to learn how to flirt. I hear lots of women say, But I am no good at flirting. I can't stand flirting. Why do I have to do it? Why can't I just be me?

    Well, the fact of the matter is we have to let the man know in no uncertain terms that we are interested in him so that he is willing to stick his neck out on the line to make the next move. So it is just like if you really, really want to find a job, you learn how to interview, because you need that job. Well, if you really, really want a relationship, then you have to learn how to be good at flirting. Otherwise, the man is never going to have a clue that you are interested in him and he won't be willing to stick his neck out on the line and ask you out.